"I called to set up my six-week postpartum appointment and they said congratulations and asked how [my son] was doing. I was shocked by the question, as if this had never happened before, making the isolation that I was already experiencing even worse."
Nikki
"A nurse from my OB's office called me two weeks postpartum to ask how the baby was doing...[this was] after I called and told the front desk and a nurse and my OB that my son died in the NICU. I skipped my [postpartum] appointment because I couldn't deal with explaining again and again."
Cathy
"I had a 39-week stillbirth and my hospital record literally says 'baby had no complications and was discharged to home with mom.'" ... In hospital, they texted me 'congratulations' after I replied to their reminder for my appointment, which I was missing because I had just delivered my son."
Katrin